After frustration with the lock, I layed it down for a while. Then weeks of just working it a few times in the evening while watching TV. There is now a breakthrough in the Blue Boy. I can unlock it easily with thumb and index. I can "flick" it open.
So now I carry it, I convexed and polished the edge with my cardboard wheels. To make the blade look just a little less fat, I put small and tasteful swedges. Great knife. :D
If you want to see the inside, see below.
WARNING, DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME. It's tricky!

