Can we let it go?
Can we let it go?
When I joined this forum a few months ago I was immediately impressed by how polite and kind people are here, which is sadly unusual for an anonymous online community. But the last few days one thread in particular has been really bumming me out...we all know which.
I think at this point, everyone has had the chance to express his/her opinions on the subject (which is our right, or course), but it's clear we're just going to have to agree to disagree on that topic, and that is 100% ok. I certainly don't mean to suppress anyone's voice or to criticize anyone, but tempers are flaring, and productive discussion seems to be ending. So it feels like a good time to let that thread go. Can we all kiss and make up and move on to other more fun topics? I feel like we need a new article from Larin to think about... :p
I think at this point, everyone has had the chance to express his/her opinions on the subject (which is our right, or course), but it's clear we're just going to have to agree to disagree on that topic, and that is 100% ok. I certainly don't mean to suppress anyone's voice or to criticize anyone, but tempers are flaring, and productive discussion seems to be ending. So it feels like a good time to let that thread go. Can we all kiss and make up and move on to other more fun topics? I feel like we need a new article from Larin to think about... :p
- Julia
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"Be excellent to each other." - Bill S. Preston, Esq.
Re: Can we let it go?
For once I have no idea what this is about and I'm probably better off for it.
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Re: Can we let it go?
Somebody is butt hurt.
Re: Can we let it go?
The BBS thread...which should have stopped many pages ago. That's an agonizing read
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1 - Monterey Bay Knives Slayback Flipper / ZDP 189
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1 - Bradford Guardian 3 / Vanadis 4E Wharnie
1 - Monterey Bay Knives Slayback Flipper / ZDP 189
1 - CRK Small Sebenza 31/Macassar Ebony Inlays
1 - CRK Large Inkosi Insingo/ Black Micarta Inlays
1 - CRK Small Sebenza 31 Insingo/Magnacut
-Rick
Re: Can we let it go?
If I personally view what someone says as a complaint, whether it's warranted or not to me, I pretty much just leave it be. It takes 2 to tango and the people swooping in to attack others for complaining are just as guilty (if not more) of stirring up unwanted drama.
Re: Can we let it go?
It’s easy enough to ignore the drama filled threads. It has worked well for me - I still love this forum!
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Re: Can we let it go?
Good attitude.
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Re: Can we let it go?
same!
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Fixed Blades: Proficient, Magnacut Mule
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Fixed Blades: Proficient, Magnacut Mule
Special and Sentimental: Southard, Squarehead LW, Ouroboros, Calendar Para 3 LW, 40th Anniversary Native, Ti Native, Calendar Watu, Tanto PM2
Would like to own again: CQI Caribbean Sheepsfoot PE, Watu
Wishlist: Magnacut, Shaman Sprints!
Re: Can we let it go?
+1
Michael
48 Spydies, 44 different models, 43 different steels
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Grail knife, still to be acquired: original Tuff by Ed Schempp Feel free to help me find one at a reasonable price...
48 Spydies, 44 different models, 43 different steels
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Grail knife, still to be acquired: original Tuff by Ed Schempp Feel free to help me find one at a reasonable price...
Re: Can we let it go?
I have a feeling which thread this is about. I honestly don't read every thread, some of them just don't catch my interest and if it's the one I'm thinking of I really couldn't care less, especially not enough to argue with anyone over it.
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Re: Can we let it go?
I sure am. A spider (a real spider) bit me on the butt. Then I realized if you say 'a spider bite' quickly it sounds like 'assbiter bite'. I got bit by 'assbiter'.
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Re: Can we let it go?
Well that's never leaving my head :D
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Hebrews 13:6 So we may boldly say: “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?”
MNOSD #0049
Re: Can we let it go?
Well, this happens occasionally. The red locktight issue was not so good. Bearings in the mantra gots bit ugly. Or the disassembly voiding warrantee issue.
We will come out of this ok. And spyderco is watching. If a change is needed, then something will get changed.
Glad all you nice people are still here.
Bring on reveal # 3 or those nice new Murray Carter super blue kitchen knives!
We will come out of this ok. And spyderco is watching. If a change is needed, then something will get changed.
Glad all you nice people are still here.
Bring on reveal # 3 or those nice new Murray Carter super blue kitchen knives!
Re: Can we let it go?
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-Matt a.k.a. Lo_Que, loadedquestions135 I ❤ The P'KAL
"The world of edges has a small doorway in, but opens into a cavern that is both wide and deep." -sal
"The world of edges has a small doorway in, but opens into a cavern that is both wide and deep." -sal
"Ghost hunters scope the edge." -sal
Re: Can we let it go?
I am dealing with the exact same issue...
Right on the butt cheek, feels like I have a giant lump under the skin. Boy does it hurt!
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Re: Can we let it go?
I can tell by a thread title what the thread will evolve into. I haven’t looked at that thread since it only had about 5 posts in it. It is safe to say that I have let it go.
This forum is still a very respectful place but over the years some of the internet has slowly seeped in and it has changed. It is important to remember that people make a place what it is. We cannot avoid folks being argumentative or antagonistic but we can control how we react to them. Folks like that move on when they don’t get the attention they desire.
Just be mindful of what threads you participate in and who you engage with. Don’t be afraid to use the ignore feature if you need to. :)
This forum is still a very respectful place but over the years some of the internet has slowly seeped in and it has changed. It is important to remember that people make a place what it is. We cannot avoid folks being argumentative or antagonistic but we can control how we react to them. Folks like that move on when they don’t get the attention they desire.
Just be mindful of what threads you participate in and who you engage with. Don’t be afraid to use the ignore feature if you need to. :)
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sal wrote:Knife afi's are pretty far out, steel junky's more so, but "edge junky's" are just nuts. :p
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Re: Can we let it go?
Well said as usual Darby!bearfacedkiller wrote: ↑Tue Sep 03, 2019 11:53 amI can tell by a thread title what the thread will evolve into. I haven’t looked at that thread since it only had about 5 posts in it. It is safe to say that I have let it go.
This forum is still a very respectful place but over the years some of the internet has slowly seeped in and it has changed. It is important to remember that people make a place what it is. We cannot avoid folks being argumentative or antagonistic but we can control how we react to them. Folks like that move on when they don’t get the attention they desire.
Just be mindful of what threads you participate in and who you engage with. Don’t be afraid to use the ignore feature if you need to. :)
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Re: Can we let it go?
Very wise words BFK! Was told to me in my younger days, but it took many years before I really understood what it meant.
Re: Can we let it go?
The best part, comedy-wise, is watching people expose their true colors by not being able to suppress their angry opinions against those of others. Human nature (tendency towards conflict) + dialogue = beautiful.
Re: Can we let it go?
I really like this forum because it is an overwhelmingly positive place with tons of great information, advice, experience that I just can't find elsewhere. When threads take a turn towards the antagonistic, I find myself wanting to avoid them altogether. And that really sucks when it happens in a thread that I want to follow.